1. Сверхтребовательные (долженствующие) parents. Believe that a child must meet their specific requirements and views. Even with minor blunders and mistakes child is exposed to harsh criticism. Moreover, parents are sincerely think that this model of the «developing» their child, makes him improve. All the «unnecessary» initiative on the part of the child is suppressed. The child has an opinion about himself as about an insolvent losers. This forms the alarming decline of the personality of the blockade comment on initiatives of the kind: I will not do anything in order not receive the next portion of criticism. Ground for the development of social phobias.
2. Гиперопекающие parents. Parents are overly protective and control its health, education, deeds. The concern of the parents is manifested in each of the uncertain situation, expressed in constant expectation of danger, misfortune and corresponding prohibitions are imposed on the behaviour of the child, in order to avoid this: don't go away from the yard - get lost, don't talk to strangers - hurt, not get in the height of the fall and etc. These external programs largely determine human behavior and in adult life. This forms the alarming decline of the personality of the blockade of the initiative of the final types: I will not do anything, that is bad not ended. Ground for the development of specific isolated phobias.
3. Conflicting parents. Constant conflict situation in the family. Chronic conflicts in the family, occur for various reasons (psychological incompatibility parents, difficult living conditions and so on) provide families with permanent emotional instability. In these circumstances, the child is often a lightning rod, a tool to drain the emotions of the parents. The reaction of substitution, in which anger, irritability, etc. are directed to the most defenseless object (the child). He is guilty in everything, cause of all the evils. Ground for the development of depressive personality.
4. Distant parents. Emotional isolation is possible in those families where the interests of the parents purely related to the work or other circumstances outside the family. The child grows in conditions of emotional isolation, when formally saved family. For example, such situation is common in divorced families where the mother is forced to educate one child. Objectively it is too busy work, however, on an emotional level, it can look at the child features of her husband, whom she hates, as a result, the child is given on education to grandparents, while the mother is trying to create a new family. Or both parents are emotionally cold (шизоидными) personalities, do not feel affection for the child so the child can educate someone of the closest relatives. His communication with parents is broken. Ground for the development of schizoid personality.